Cogours

I could not stop wondering why some people thinks that it is unethical when older women start dating younger men and finally brand them as cogours while the whole world accepts the relationship between older men and younger women. Some believes that this is more fashion trend which is among celebrities. But in reality, some part of the world it is a cultural belief or newly motivated rather influenced thinking. The older women get involve with young men mainly due to older men dating younger women. Unable to find the partners of same age (batch mates) persuaded the singles to opt for alternative solution. The bunch of single people left in society started dating no matter what the age is. Some, against all odds, starts relationships but due to the pressure from society their relationship end up in disasters. Having said this, there are couple of people who have a healthy relationship with the huge age differences. I saw an interview of a couple who has been dating for 6 years. The woman who is aged 56 and the guy who is just 26. They met each other through internet and are happy. The woman has a child elder than her boyfriend and she is even older than her boy friend’s mother. But this did not affect their relationship.
The divorced middle aged women were inspired by few brave women and learned to move on instead of sobbing over their ruined married life. In some part of the world, the part of the society are using various approaches of match making, like Monday night parties where you can interact with single people. This is to encourage the divorced middle age people to overcome their stress and find a new life.
I personally think that everyone deserves to be loved exclusively. If they are happy together then their relationships should be accepted by society at large. In our small society recently, we also started experiencing it, but unlike other societies, the age still matters. The sad thing is that the people take it for granted. People tend to misuse it. That is the reason why large part of our society still opposes these kinds of relationships. Divorced people are reluctant to move on due to the pressure from the people around them. But everyone deserves to be happy and loved. Societies should stop pointing out this part of society as black sheep when they are trying to reach for their happiness.