Romancing or time passing- ends up women sobbing

I often wonder why young ladies, teenagers, women fall for wrong guys. Is that they are weak or that they are stupid or that they are blind. The answer is short and simple. The men appear at a wrong time. Those times when she just broke up with her boy friend and was on grieve or that she had suffered a family problem recently or that she needed a comforting hand to be with her as she was feeling ignored, frustrated, desperate or that she thinks that why not a try. First he captures her heart with sweet wonderful words and convinces her that she means everything to him. How can they be so selfish?. Next step would be asking her out for dinner or for a walk. She hesitates at first but ladies complicated creature. They go out for a date even if it was never said. Then the phone calls starts. The phone calls which takes half of her sleep which wakes her up during her deep sleep, which she waits for desperately, because of which she misses half of her dinner. The conversations which she is never bored off. These are the happy days. Memorable days she thinks. Then come the departing. Feels the whole world is laughing at her and cruel to her. She feels that there is nothing left to her. Feels she sleeps like forever at least she will dream of him. They start separate journey with the lots of unwritten promises. I hope that all girls have enough strength to say no to these cowards but.... Human being especially women in particular are sensitive and emotional as well get impressed easily, which is their weakness.

She leaves with sealed promises but how far this will go or will there really be a happy ending that is what we are not sure of. She waited there one end thinking that whatever he said was true and one day he will come in a white horse to take her. But what she never thinks was the dark side. May be that he was just time passing with you showing the worlds end with the translucent picture frame all over. You were so blind to see the reality and to take a step ahead and touch the frame. When time passed by you realise that you have been used as puppet and being fooled. Some women find it out before it is too late and open their eyes before they are blind folded again. Others unfortunately ends up there life because that they cannot handled what they suffered.

Now wake up girls. Never allow yourself to be played by these cowards. Never treat your selves like a toy. Grown up and make your choices. World is full of choices. There are nice men as there are cowards. Nice men who makes you happy and who will do anything to have a future with you. It is that we don’t know how to use the potentials we have got. Be faithful, be honest and strong so then you will feel that the world is all yours. May god gives all women the strength to stand up and spoke up even in odds.